How privacy works here

Privacy is the foundation of this archive rather than a footnote. This page explains our rules in plain language.

What this site is

This is a personal archive kept by one system. It is not a service, a shop, or a treatment provider. We do not sell anything and we do not run advertising.

Three layers of access

Openly published material sits behind a content advisory you choose to open. A restricted layer requires the archive passphrase and shows a content warning first. The deepest layer — detailed disclosure about programming and specific events — is not published on this website at all.

Search engines

We do not want this archive circulating through search results. Restricted and private material is excluded from crawling and indexing, and we keep the site's overall discoverability deliberately low.

Messages you send us

Messages sent through our forms are delivered to our own inbox and read by us. We use your email address only to reply. Private notes are never published or quoted. Public messages are only ever shared with your explicit permission, and we will always ask first.

Names and identifying details

We do not publish the names of our insiders' outside counterparts, our therapist, our family, or any other person connected to our history. Insider names shown here are chosen by those insiders and can be withdrawn at any time.

Your choices

If you have written to us and want your message deleted, tell us and we will remove it. If something on this site is affecting you badly, please close the tab and take care of yourself first — this archive will still be here later.

Policy last reviewed August 11, 2026